Don't Fear The Theatre: Why Going To The Cinema Alone Is Great

Has everyone else got plans for the night? No problem, the cinema always has room for one more.

For some, the idea of seeing a movie alone evokes panic and embarrassment. Even whilst waiting for a friend to join them in the cinema they’ll place their bag on the seat next to them, replying with a mumbled “no” to those who ask, “Is this seat free?” Then they’ll spend all of the ads worrying random strangers won’t believe they are still waiting on a friend who went to the toilet ten minutes ago. But for me, it’s a fun experience that I believe should become a social norm.

Doing things alone has endless positives. The first time I decided to see a movie alone, it was for a terribly cliché rom-com I don’t even recall the name of. Let’s just say I’m glad no one else had to suffer through it with me.

The next movie I went to see alone was John Green’s The Fault in Our Stars. After asking friends and family if they wanted to join me, only receiving endless excuses and bland expressions, I decided I may as well go alone. I thoroughly enjoyed the movie despite bringing enough tissues for two, but at least I didn’t have to worry about anyone watching me weep. Meanwhile, the young teen girls next to me constantly wiped their eyes and complained about their mascara running. I laughed with them afterwards and told them to try going it alone next time.

I think seeing a movie on your lonesome is the best way to fully engage with it. You avoid all the usual distractions; people on their phones, friends tapping you on the shoulder to tell you they need to pee, or to question where they know that actor from, as well as reaching across you for snacks.

Don’t get me wrong. Seeing a movie with friends is a great way to catch up, and also a great lead into romance for those on the typical date, but the experience of going alone is another thing altogether.

You’ll never worry about missing the opening scenes because your friend is still getting their ticket, or spend an entire movie wondering if the other person is actually enjoying it. Was that scene really uncomfortable for them? Are they falling asleep?

It’s just you and the movie; everyone else just fades into the background.

So, go forth and enjoy your mountain of over-priced snack food without judgement, and join the lone but not lonely viewers by giving it a try. And perhaps one day the cinema will be full of solo moviegoers, all prepared to sit next to one another and enjoy the social experience of being alone.

Sarah Bellis is one of Student Edge’s student contributors. Learn more about the contributors program.