With the New Year upon us, many are facing some significant changes.
For some, it will be the transition from primary school to high school; an experience singular to each person.
You may be feeling like this:
Or like this:
There’s nothing wrong with either reaction. It’s a process that’s different for everyone.
That said, there are still a few universal tips out there to make the transition easier.
Don’t forget about orientation day.
It’s all about getting organised early. Checking out orientation day will give you a feel of the school (especially if it’s much larger than your primary school), an opportunity to see the new class environment, and possibly get a hint of the transition to greater independence when it comes to time management and study.
Actually be there on the first day.
It’s a cliché, yes, but the first day is when absolutely everyone is in the same boat (and it’s a lot easier to meet new people). Don’t take a sickie and turn up on Day 2 instead. On Day 1, you’ll have the added security of teachers helping you adjust to the bigger space and classroom change.
Plan but don’t obsess.
This is the tip that will save you a lot of irritation. New situations bring out the need in most of us to plan things so that they run smoothly… and that mostly leads to disappointment. That’s not to say high school isn’t fun, but it’s always easier to not try and expect how everything will play out. Just be around to enjoy it.
Join something.
Whether it be sports, dance or chess, there’s generally an organised hobby or pastime for anyone to join in on. Even if there’s not, the act of meeting new people alone counts as "joining something."
Don’t be afraid to ask for help.
Whether it’s bullying, not understanding something in class or just needing a chat, there’s always someone around to chat with. Not asking for assistance will likely just stress you out more. Find out what services the school offers for students seeking a private discussion space.
Most importantly though…
Treat high school as a chance to meet people beyond the reaches of your small primary school. Sure, it’s easy to maintain friendships and stay within a group rather than branch out and meet new people, yet seeking new friends will help build your confidence. It’s great to further develop some already long-lasting friendships, but coupling that with possibly meeting one new person a day could make your high school experience even better. Not everyone is naturally confident; experiences like this could help you fool anyone in the future.
High school is what you make of it, like most things in life, and it probably won’t be a perfect experience. Just remember to enjoy it. If it doesn’t live up to expectations, it’s still guaranteed to teach you valuable lessons for later on.
Emily Lam is one of Student Edge’s student contributors. Learn more about the contributors program.
Don't be afraid to ask for help if you're lost etc., because you might end up meeting someone that you could become really good friends with.
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I'm going to High school and I was afraid of the change but with these tips I think it will help me a lot.
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